Where to start. I was really hoping that Tomodachi wouldn’t go into heat before I could fly is to Anchorage to have her spayed. I also had no clue that a neutered male was more than happy to ‘get it on’ with an in-heat female. Well, after the pre-heat (bring on the blood specks everywhere!), now I have a couple of horny dogs running amok in the flat! I have no idea why anyone would want to go through the entire process. If the dogs are always outside, then I guess folks don’t notice, but inside pets who are not spayed or neutered? Holy heck, what a mess.
Nakama was neutered the December of the same year I’d been adopted by him. We flew to Anchorage for a slew of doctor’s appointments, multiple for him, too. People in countless places tell me how much they love male dogs because they don’t have to worry about puppies. I find these people the most uneducated individuals when it comes to creatures that breed. Sure, the male dog owners don’t have to worry about their dog getting pregnant, but what a thing to say! I’ll let my dog go out and impregnate as many females as he wants, it isn’t my responsibility. Folks who say this shouldn’t have pets or children. No, I am not sorry to say this, either. There are overpopulation problems among domesticated pets and humans, all because the humans have this mentality. Nakama’s neuter May have kept a whole bunch of cute puppies from being born, but at least he is not creating puppies that are disposable.
Tomodachi is set to be spayed in June. We are all traveling to Anchorage for some socializing and surgeries (all three of us have one). Nakama and I will walk around the area while she is in surgery, most likely worrying about her because she is our family. Afterwards we will spend a number of days just chilling. I look forward to her not having to worry about unwanted male advances in the future. We can walk without worrying about the ferals that run around in the village because people don’t tie up their dogs, or get them fixed (for the reason I mentioned in the prior paragraph). I want her to have fun, and I can say for certain that she is not enjoying being in heat. She can’t relieve herself without the uncut males coming around, and she can’t relax in our flat unless I shoo Nakama away. Once she is spayed, all she will ever need to do is have fun!
Here is where my major problem comes in. Due to my ASD I have some OCD going on and let me tell you, the blood on the floor is freaking me out. All of these people are just like, use diapers or a pair of underwear. They might work well with someone who doesn’t shred things to oblivion. Nakama and Tomodachi both shredded a pair of underwear I’d used as a makeshift diaper. There is no way I would use a real diaper because if they shredded that and ate the plastic?! Not to mention the feral dogs and birds get into the dumpsters here, so there are dirty diapers all over the ground and I don’t want to increase the amount of disgust. So I am washing bedding and mopping my floor almost daily. This, at least, keeps the demons in my mind at bay.
The other day, when I was shouting at a nasty feral (I call him nasty because he has killed a dog and injured others, he also killed an eagle, which the owners of said dog just discarded in the dumpster 🤬) to get away, a number of local children just asked why I didn’t let Tomodachi have puppies. Puppies are cute, puppies are fun. I had to educate them the only way I knew how. Looked them straight in the eye and asked if they thought it was okay for a child in my grade (I teach fifth) to have a baby. They looked at me like I was crazy. I informed them that at seven months, Tomodachi isn’t fully formed, so her having puppies is like a child having a baby. Of course to them my babies are just dogs, so we do not see things the same, but even my vets have said that dogs shouldn’t have puppies during the first or second, some folks have even said to wait to have a litter or two when the dogs are two years or older. I like those responsible answers, but I still never want to deal with the ‘fun’ of a heat, again…ever. So she will get her spay and then none of us will worry about the situation further.