Spay and Neuter

Where to start. I was really hoping that Tomodachi wouldn’t go into heat before I could fly is to Anchorage to have her spayed. I also had no clue that a neutered male was more than happy to ‘get it on’ with an in-heat female. Well, after the pre-heat (bring on the blood specks everywhere!), now I have a couple of horny dogs running amok in the flat! I have no idea why anyone would want to go through the entire process. If the dogs are always outside, then I guess folks don’t notice, but inside pets who are not spayed or neutered? Holy heck, what a mess.

Nakama was neutered the December of the same year I’d been adopted by him. We flew to Anchorage for a slew of doctor’s appointments, multiple for him, too. People in countless places tell me how much they love male dogs because they don’t have to worry about puppies. I find these people the most uneducated individuals when it comes to creatures that breed. Sure, the male dog owners don’t have to worry about their dog getting pregnant, but what a thing to say! I’ll let my dog go out and impregnate as many females as he wants, it isn’t my responsibility. Folks who say this shouldn’t have pets or children. No, I am not sorry to say this, either. There are overpopulation problems among domesticated pets and humans, all because the humans have this mentality. Nakama’s neuter May have kept a whole bunch of cute puppies from being born, but at least he is not creating puppies that are disposable.

Tomodachi is set to be spayed in June. We are all traveling to Anchorage for some socializing and surgeries (all three of us have one). Nakama and I will walk around the area while she is in surgery, most likely worrying about her because she is our family. Afterwards we will spend a number of days just chilling. I look forward to her not having to worry about unwanted male advances in the future. We can walk without worrying about the ferals that run around in the village because people don’t tie up their dogs, or get them fixed (for the reason I mentioned in the prior paragraph). I want her to have fun, and I can say for certain that she is not enjoying being in heat. She can’t relieve herself without the uncut males coming around, and she can’t relax in our flat unless I shoo Nakama away. Once she is spayed, all she will ever need to do is have fun!

Here is where my major problem comes in. Due to my ASD I have some OCD going on and let me tell you, the blood on the floor is freaking me out. All of these people are just like, use diapers or a pair of underwear. They might work well with someone who doesn’t shred things to oblivion. Nakama and Tomodachi both shredded a pair of underwear I’d used as a makeshift diaper. There is no way I would use a real diaper because if they shredded that and ate the plastic?! Not to mention the feral dogs and birds get into the dumpsters here, so there are dirty diapers all over the ground and I don’t want to increase the amount of disgust. So I am washing bedding and mopping my floor almost daily. This, at least, keeps the demons in my mind at bay.

The other day, when I was shouting at a nasty feral (I call him nasty because he has killed a dog and injured others, he also killed an eagle, which the owners of said dog just discarded in the dumpster 🤬) to get away, a number of local children just asked why I didn’t let Tomodachi have puppies. Puppies are cute, puppies are fun. I had to educate them the only way I knew how. Looked them straight in the eye and asked if they thought it was okay for a child in my grade (I teach fifth) to have a baby. They looked at me like I was crazy. I informed them that at seven months, Tomodachi isn’t fully formed, so her having puppies is like a child having a baby. Of course to them my babies are just dogs, so we do not see things the same, but even my vets have said that dogs shouldn’t have puppies during the first or second, some folks have even said to wait to have a litter or two when the dogs are two years or older. I like those responsible answers, but I still never want to deal with the ‘fun’ of a heat, again…ever. So she will get her spay and then none of us will worry about the situation further.

Crating and Indoor Dogs

I see, constantly, folks berating the use of crates when working with dogs. Let them run free! Crating is cruel! That isn’t how to treat a pet! Well, as someone who has seen what a dog can do, or what can happen to a dog running wild, I completely disagree. That is not to say I think dogs should be crated all the time, but crates, from my experience, have benefits.

When I first adopted Nakama a few years ago I had him crated when I went to work, mainly because he was young and I was working on potty training him. He was only in the crate when I went to work or to the store, but was out the rest of the time, including when we slept. Nakama didn’t have as severe an anxiety issue as Tomodachi, but that crate, for the first two years, was his cave of comfort. He had no issues in the crate and at two years he was able to stay out of the crate permanently, which is good because Tomodachi came around quickly thereafter.

Tomodachi has a much more severe case of anxiety. The crate is her comfort zone and she is happy enough to go into the area even when she doesn’t need to (because I am home). I live with anxiety myself as a side-effect of my ASD, so I know full well why a safe zone is a comfort. I crate her fully in the morning, then come home quickly at lunch to let her out for a bathroom break. During the afternoon I let her roam free, which is a plus because she can be with Nakama. He used to glare at me when I put her up as if to say, ‘You brought me this new toy, but you lock it up!?’ I leave the door to the crate open when I leave so if she wants to go inside then she has that option.

Crating a dog is a personal preference. Some dogs can’t go the day without chewing a hole in the wall. Others like to find their human’s shoes! Tomo and Naka have done that, little imps. I will say this, though, as many folks hate the idea of even keeping dogs inside. The dangers in a man made society are not conducive to letting dogs roam. Two hundred years ago, yeah, a dog roaming free was okay. There weren’t people driving vehicles, shooting off guns, and basically taking over the land. Where I live it is well known that the village pays the cullers twenty dollars a dog to keep the population down. If my dogs were running free I can only imagine the torture they might endure, at the hands of humans, mind you. There are also natural issues to worry about such as feral dogs, wolves, and porcupines. Any of those could get at a domesticated animal and kill it pretty quickly. So, yeah, I am all for indoor dogs, in a crate if necessary.

I am not here to make people change their minds regarding indoor dogs and crates. However, I will point out that what may work for one may not work for others. Many people in this village let their dogs run amok. They get quilled, hit by vehicles (and survive), or shot by people and live to see another day. Personally, if that were my dog then I would consider myself an unfit pet parent because I wasn’t monitoring their activities. I’ve seen the poor dogs with broken legs trying to run around. I’ve seen the dogs with quills in their faces countless times. I’ve seen the dogs who were shot by disgusting people. I don’t want that for my dogs. Nakama and Tomodachi are happy enough and we make it outside for occasional (for the moment due to weather and Tomodachi going through her first heat) walks and playing in the snow. Their happiness and safety come first.

Bordetella

Today I managed to get Tomodachi one of the vaccinations I need so she can see dog groomers while in Anchorage. I know vaccinations are completely debatable for some people, but for me they are not. I am pro-vaccination for myself and my puppers. Both Nakama and Tomodachi will have the required vaccinations and updates, just like I get them every update.

Administering the Bordetella by myself caused quite a bit of anxiety. As a person on the autistic spectrum I have anxiety overload at times. I want to do it correctly because it is the best thing for my pups, which is the primary reason for the anxiety issues. Doing it myself in the middle of nowhere also causes my anxiety to jump. There isn’t a vet here, so if she has an adverse reaction then we are going to have to rely on friends and advice. Currently she seems okay, but a search in the Internet revealed she could have a reaction up to ten days afterward. Nakama never had a reaction, so I am hoping this is how it goes for Tomodachi.

The vaccination isn’t all that difficult to concoct, you mix the fluid with the powder. I watched a tutorial on YouTube, but what she had to do and what I had to do were slightly different, which triggered quite a bit of anxiety more so than I had already experienced. Luckily I did keep my calm enough to read the directions and follow them without too much of an issue. Mixing; easy! Getting into their nose isn’t such an easy task, though. Tomodachi didn’t like the process and neither did Nakama, who ran off and didn’t want anything to do with me. I am pretty sure he thought he was next. I am grateful he is up to date and now that Tomodachi has the parvo vaccinations and the kennel cough vaccination, she can go to the groomers in Anchorage after we land and not wait till the end!

Redirection

One of the biggest problems I’ve run into when working with my pups is the constant barrage of ferals running amok. They never stop and quite frankly, their lax owners are to blame. I have been extremely lucky that other critters aren’t running around, though the flying kind so tend to make things interesting, especially since eagles are bigger than both doggos at this point. Frankly, training them had me at a loss. I was speaking with a trainer the other day and she recommended using the same technique I use when trying to get the pups to sit for a picture, only make sure I am doing this when there are distractions. I’ve only had an opportunity to use it a few times with the necessary distractions, but every time it has worked. So, treats all around. I carry treats with me most of the time anyway, but I’ve been lucky enough to have redirected my dogs toward my person. I do worry that this method is going to cause issues with ferals, the children who run around don’t care that I don’t give them a treat. However, when the ferals come around, that is when I will have the true test. Until that time, we practice in the apartment. While in the midst of play I’ll call them for a treat, and if they run over and sit down, they get the yummy.

Use a Leash

On Friday, January 29thmy puppers and I were attacked by a dog run wild. This post is all about why people need to use a leash and keep their dogs confined to their property. I know that everyone always says: Oh, my dog is awesome, would never attack anyone, I shouldn’t have to leash or confine my dog. Well, I call BS in capital letters on this for a multitude of reasons, and I am going to use the attack to explain why. First, I’ll tell you what happened. 

Nakama, Tomodachi, and I were taking a short walk as we always do on a nice day. We live at the end of a road, the only road to get anywhere from our dwelling. To walk anywhere on the road, we have no choice but to pass the home of the dog who attacked us. 

Now, after over a year of complaints from myself and others, this dog was finally chained. Prior to being chained she would charge people walking, ATVs, and other animals. She charged my ATV and hit my leg while I was driving passed. I purchased a cane with an electric prod because this dog is aggressive. I also used to pick Nakama up when walking by because this dog is that ridiculous. 

Fast forward and at least the owners had her chained, though it wasn’t before she was hurt in many ways. The dog was hit and ended up with a broken leg, then the family went on vacation, leaving her here in the house to be let out a couple times a day by a neighbor. So, with this information you may be able to tell how much this family actually cares for the beast. I do not use beast lightly, either, as she has attacked one of her puppies in my care, while I was walking him and Nakama a couple of winter holidays ago. I can speculate as to her actions all day, every day, but the only thing I can say is that she is aggressive and violent, so when she is chained, she runs, trying to break free. 

Friday, January 29th, she does, and out of the corner of my eye I see her pounce on Nakama and bite him on the side, causing him to run and me to whack her, hard, with my cane. The youngest son of the owner comes running from across the street, yelling at me to not hit his dog. I yelled back, and used quite a few curse words, for him to get her and take her home because I am going to keep whacking her if she keeps charging. 

Only he doesn’t. As I am walking away, contacting the police (who do nothing, here, by the way), he decides he wants to take his violent dog for a walk and follow me. She keeps breaking free from his grip, so I am thinking I am going to get to the school and go inside, screw the rule of no dogs in the building. If that animal is going to follow us, I want my dogs safe. 

We don’t get to the school, though, because another local feral sees this first one charging us and goes after her. A nasty dog fight ensues and the son of the owners is laughing! I eventually catch on camera the end of this dog fight, as well as this child laughing as if a dog fight is a good thing. I notice the second dog in the mix has a nasty cut on the neck (which this child also points out, still laughing), so I make it a point to say I am going to her home to inform the owners why she now has a gaping wound. 

My dogs and I continue down toward the school, away from the chaos as I am trying to send the video to the police on our terrible Internet connection. Eventually we head back up the road to the other dog’s home. I run into a man on the town board and explain what happened, since he is the one we’ve complained to before. I also made it to the home of the second dog and explained what happened. Luckily the injury to the second dog was from something else and just looked bad, but that still does not change the fact that multiple dogs were in a fight, all because two families do not seem to think it matters about leash and tether laws. 

(Side note, the owner of the first dog defamed me by posting on FB how I had hit her dog, without adding in that her dog charged and attacked us first.)

So, there is the story. Luckily Nakama was not hurt, but both he and Tomodachi had nightmares that night. Tomo still has some PTSD from going by the house, and when she hears this beast bark, she also comes close, even if we are far away. 

Why do I call BS on people scoffing leash laws? Well, if people had chained this dog up instead of letting her run wild from the get-go, then the odds are she wouldn’t have gotten as hurt as she has, plus she would have been used to being chained and wouldn’t be constantly trying to break free. 

The second dog in the mix has been porcupined so many times in the past year, if she were chained then that injury to her neck wouldn’t have happened, and not come open during a fight. 

Imagine if you will a person walking with their dog on a leash in a park. Another person is walking with their dog off-leash, but that off-leash dog is nice! They wanna go play with everyone, and even if well trained, will still dash off to meet new friends. Keep imagining this friendly dog going to the leashed dog and getting mauled because the owner of the dog on the leash knows their dog can be aggressive, but someone else didn’t take that into account. Now there is an injured dog who was off-leash. Who is at fault? I am pretty sure the owner of the dog on the leash will be blamed because their dog is violent, but they were following the rules! The one at fault is the one letting their dog run free, but they aren’t going to see it that way because their dog is trained and so nice and sweet. 

I call BS again. Why? Even the most highly trained dog is still capable of attacking when feeling threatened. No dog should be off-leash unless in a designated area. There are too many variables, and as with my story earlier, you don’t know if your sweet dog is going to get pepper sprayed because another human does not expect your dog to come at them. I will not hesitate to whack an animal that comes at me in a quick manner. If the dog walks up, then it is one thing, but if they run up in the blink of an eye I am going to consider it an attack, and nice, gentle Fido is going to get a whack. 

This is all common courtesy in the land of animal companionship. No one who cares for their animal wants them to be hurt, and just like a mama bear, the owner is going to stand at full height and not let the teeth and growling get to them. The owner of the dog who attacked my dog; she is lucky I am not in the habit of suing people, or I would have no problems suing both her and the village for defamation of character, as well as not following laws, and people not doing their jobs. We have a rule in this village that dogs are to be contained; that doesn’t happen, clearly. When I first got here and heard that there was a rule that if someone took care of the aggressive and feral dogs, they were paid $25 per dog. What I mean by “take care of” is that they grab them and shoot them. I still think it is a barbaric idea, but when law abiding citizens and their families (both fur and non-fur) are attacked, then I start to see why such a rule was put into place. 

I am not condoning shooting animals due to lack of respect for rules, however, I highly recommend leash laws. Follow them, or your dog, who may only want to play, can get hurt. Who is at fault? Well, if the person is not following the law, and their dog is hurt, then it is their fault. Do not go blaming the ones who listen because of a lack of common courtesy. 

Gluttony


When I first adopted Nakama in 2018 I had to work with him not to inhale his food. He spent a spell on the street before being hit by the ATV, so he had had to fight for his food at times. I bought a trick bowl and that helped him slow down as he realized he had food, he was not going to starve, and all was going to be right as rain. Well, I didn’t think to be adopting another dog while in the bush, so I gave the trick bowls away and didn’t think anything about it. Jump to 2020 and now I have another pup, but since she has always had food, I didn’t think she would need to learn to slow down. Guess I was wrong! This little dog is a glutton of epic size and eats her food so fast she doesn’t even know when she is full. I was the same way as a child and now I am paying the price in obesity, I do not wish for her to end up like me.

Tomodachi all but inhales her food and I can tell she isn’t chewing due to her scat. There are whole pieces (small, but still not fully digested) of carrot in her feces. Tomo was not chewing her food and her puppy digestive system was not able to digest some of the stuff she eats. So I grabbed this mat I’d purchased for Nakama in August of 2020 and hid her Kibble inside of the felt. Now she has to dig, which has made her slow down, but I had no clue how to give her the food I made (rice, chicken or other meat, and veggies). Putting it in the mat would make the mat disgusting. I posted something on my Instagram account, which goes to my FB account and a good friend (closest I will ever have to having a daughter) mentioned using a Kong. I have one of those I bought for Tomo when she was really small, but it wasn’t played with all that often since I didn’t have anything to stuff it with, until now! Granted, she has only had two meals with both the mat and the Kong, but that little chew toy is getting quite a bit of use now. Nakama doesn’t seem impressed that Tomodachi gets to use it to eat, but I think she we go into Anchorage for her spay this summer we may drop by a Pet Zoo and I can get them both a Kong that I’ll fill with the homemade food I cook for them in the crock. I cannot say for certain how well the Kong is at making her chew her food, but she is definitely eating slower. I will give it a week to see if her digestive system had a much needed break. For the time being, though, after researching Kong on some FB groups and YouTube, I have to say that maybe the Kong is the way to go. The toy is fun to play with, easy to clean, and watching her chase that thing around the apartment is entertaining!

Socializing and Siblings

One of the most common “problems” in my village is socializing one’s pet(s). In truth I find this issue sad because dogs clearly want to be socialized, they are a pack animal and being around others (dogs or otherwise) is important to their morale and self-esteem. I had people tell me that getting a second dog to keep my first one company was a bad idea. I scoff at them. Why would I want to have a companion for my first dog? Well, I work and spend eight or more hours a day at school, so Nakama was at home, by himself, all day. That has to be a lonely lifestyle for someone with an innate pack mentality. Did I adopt Tomodachi just for him? No, I adopted her to be part of our small family, and give Nakama an opportunity to have a sister to boss around (and boy does he ever, such a bully at times!). When I walk the Appalachian Trail I wanted to have a dog, but I realized that Nakama was not going to be able to walk the entire time with me due to his short stature, so I had it in mind to have a second one before the trek so we could go together. I digress, though with this thought, since it is now more about adopting a second than socializing, so let me get back to that.

Unsocialized dogs can be loud, violent, and difficult to control. When I first got Nakama I let him meet up with others in the area to play when we were on our walks. Sadly, many of these dogs he played with remain unsocialized and have even killed other dogs in the area because of dominance. We no longer socialize with these dogs, and for very good reason. Tomodachi is still a puppy and we are now working on her socializing. She is very good at not barking at the other dogs who bark constantly. However, she still pulls quite a bit on her lead, which means I stop what we are doing (usually walking) and pull her back until she sits down. After she sits, then we continue on. Instead of using the term “down” when she jumps on people, I chose “off” and have advised people to push her off when she does (I do the same thing, whether it be when I want her off my person, or off the table). She is learning that she is not to jump on people when we meet them, and I try to have her see people on a daily basis, just so she learns.

The other day I took her for her first social call to another person’s flat. This type of socializing is important so she knows that there is a big world out there, enclosed. Meaning that the world isn’t just the outside where we walk and our small set of rooms, but there are other places with lots of smells and new people. She did rather well with this meeting and my friend was just ecstatic because she loves Nakama and Nakama loves her, too. Tomodachi was rather timid at the beginning, but she opened up and showered my friend with all sorts of love thereafter. I have some cute pictures of both pups on her lap, but chose a different photo to accompany this post for a reason. In this photo I had someone else use treats to get my dogs’ attentions and look at the camera. I’ve been working on them looking at my camera when I take a photo of just the two of them, and it works well. In this case, I wanted them to look at my friend who was taking a family photo, another part of socializing. I was there, so the dogs were safe. My friend has a dog, so she is aware of how to act. Also, my friend is the one who crocheted the neck warmers all three of us are sporting! She has a major talent. The dogs did well, and while only one picture worked, it turned out rather cute.

Socializing is important and these baby steps I am taking with Nakama and Tomodachi are going to benefit them their entire lives. Nakama does well, but is still pretty skittish in situations. I need to focus on that, but it isn’t something easily attained in bush Alaska. One day we will be in a more urban area, or a rural area with more opportunity. Until that time we will work slowly so my pups have the confidence we all three need to walk the Trail in a few years. I want them to meet people and be respectful. I also want to learn how to help them in certain situations. I feel we are on the right track, but I am open to suggestions. I am new at this because even though I had dogs before and grew up with dogs my whole childhood, things have changed in my mind on how we should work with pets. While I am teaching them to socialize with humans and other dogs, they are teaching me how to socialize with them!

Hydrogen Peroxide

Here is a picture of my cute, little doggie-boy, Nakama. I ended up terrorizing him yesterday because he managed to swallow a piece of felt about 1.5 by 1.5 inches; totally my fault, I should have known better. I also thought I had the hydrogen peroxide at hand, which it wasn’t and when I called our market, they didn’t have any either, so I shoved the poor guy into the bathtub and tried to induce vomiting using my finger and shoving it down his throat. Poor guy ended up bleeding and foaming at the mouth, but still didn’t vomit at which point I contacted a friend at the school and asked if she knew if we had any hydrogen peroxide in the nurse’s station. She said she had some in her desk and I was welcome to the lot. So I prepared to drive my ATV back to the school, but ran into a set of flatmates and they had some at the flat. Needless to say, I borrowed the stuff and did what my folks had said, I put some of that in his mouth and had him outside to vomit. Well, nothing happened, and I was thick enough to not have my mobile on hand, so we went back inside. I had recalled reading on a web post that it takes about five to ten minutes and the hydrogen peroxide needs to fizz. The stuff didn’t fizz. So I did the intelligent thing and called my vet in Wyoming. I spoke to a few folks and eventually I was informed that the dog should have something in their stomach (I gave him some chicken while on the phone), it could take up to thirty minutes to work, and walking or running around helps. Just as I was preparing to hang up, Nakama started his vomiting spree all over the apartment. It was a major load, let me tell you. Two huge piles of food (one of which I did find the felt), and then quite a few hydrochloric acid spills with foam. Poor guy walked around the apartment for an hour vomiting and I cleaned as he went since I didn’t want to drag him down the stairs after he had already emptied the food contents of his stomach. Lesson learned in multiple ways, especially in making sure I cut off all loose pieces of felt from toys since it only takes a few seconds for a dog to gnaw off and swallow. Keeping hydrogen peroxide at hand is good (the vet told me he could have up to two table spoons, but I am not sure if that is based on his weight or not, he weighs about 30 pounds). Also, since it could take up to thirty minutes, ignore what is said on certain Internet sites and just chill outside if you don’t want to clean up a sticky mess. I know dogs tend to eat all sorts of garbage from who knows where, so when you live in the bush and do not have access to a vet, this is the best option. I would still call a vet to walk you through making the dog vomit, just because they are knowledgable (they said up to thirty minutes when the Internet pages I read said between five and ten, that extra twenty minutes is a long time when your heart is racing!). Nakama had only rice and chicken for dinner last night and this morning to help settle his tummy. He gets that normally anyway, but I held off on his dog food because I have no idea how his poor digestive tract feels after yesterday. As I mentioned, I tried to manually induce vomiting and he was quite distraught after that episode until I brought him outside, at which point he was excited to be out without Tomodachi. I am sure he felt he was being punished, and in a way he was, for my mistake and his natural desire to mangle any and everything in his reach. As long as I have the hydrogen peroxide at hand, then at least I don’t have to worry about him becoming aggressive and biting a finger off by manually making him vomit. All I can say is, thank you to everyone who helped me fix this problem and I learned many valuable lessons.

Dogs on the Bed

I have people constantly telling me that dogs are dirty and they don’t belong on the bed or the furniture. Well, good on them, they don’t need to allow their ‘pets’ on the bed. Why did I insist on my pups on the bed? Well, dogs supposedly have an innate desire not to ‘mess’ where they sleep. By having the dogs on my bed from the beginning it kept them from messing on the bed, but also helped me wake up to take them out to for a potty break. Both Nakama and Tomodachi nosed me when they needed to go from the time I brought both of them home. The bed isn’t huge, a full-size, but as neither could get off the bed in the beginning without assistance, it helped them easily night train. I still had to get up multiple times a night with Tomo, Nakama was older when he came to live with me, so he only needed one break a night from the beginning. Now, at four months, Tomodachi can make it through the night most nights, other times she needs one break, but she always wakes me. As for being on the bed or the sofa, they can cuddle with me on these pieces of furniture, and I want to have a bond with them, not treat them as objects. My fur-family, my choice. I chose their names intentionally, companion and friend. To me, they are not pets, they are family.

First Solo Walk!

Today was a beaut of a day, so Tomodachi had her first solo walk. Now, by walk I mean that it wasn’t her going out to the approved relief area and sniffing, but an actual half-Mile of walking. Took us twenty minutes. I didn’t require much of her since she is just four months old, however we are going to start working heavily on her not pulling. I didn’t attach the leash to the ‘no pull’ part of the harness, but her next solo walk I definitely will. We worked on ‘sit,’ ‘stay,’ ‘watch,’ and ‘walk.’ today. She is still learning and I believe will get better much faster if we do solo walks a couple times a week. After her walk, which included skating on the ice rink that is our roads, she and Nakama decided to have a wrestling match on the bed. Clearly he missed her while she was gone, but they both need to get used to being alone at times since training them together all the time will not work.